Powered by Max Banner Ads examined life may 2010 a study of long-term non-monogamous male couples by Tom Moon, MFT Blake Spears and Lanz Lowen have been together for over 34 years. They told me that they still have great sex, contradicting the common belief that sexual interest inevitably wanes in a long-term relationship. How do they do it? “One reason,” Lanz said, “is that we’ve... 

Bottom Shame, Bottom Pride by Tom Moon, MFT Q: While researching homophobia on the net I read some of the things you wrote about it. What you said was interesting, but along with most everything else I read, it just left me with more questions. I don’t wish I were straight, and don’t hide my being gay from anyone. What plagues me is that I’m ashamed of being a bottom. Just so there’s no...